Blog updates

1. Right up front I want to establish that I'm neither a therapist nor a marriage counselor. I claim no particular expertise in relationship. I'm simply an attorney and mediator who has worked with hundreds of couples. Over the years, I've observed some subset of what works and what doesn't when it comes to reconciliation. What follows are my observations. Read More


2. If you've read through my website, you're no doubt familiar with my philosophy that disputes are best resolved through non-adversarial means. But resolving conflict amicably requires that each spouse be willing and able to act in good faith. If, for instance, your spouse is hiding assets or income, running up debts or deliberately turning the children against you, it may be wise or even necessary to take forceful action. Read More